How would you feel if someone talked to you like this & you had some social anxiety?
By alex on January 28th, 2012 in Social Anxiety.
You introduce yourself to someone and 1′st thing they do is ask if youre ok in crowds and did you have beer?
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January 28th, 2012 at 5:23 am
RaGS sez: Hmmmmm. That’s a tough one. I’m going to have to e-mail or call Dr. Phil or like Maury & get back to you, if that’s OK.
January 28th, 2012 at 5:33 am
I’d walk away, & would never have any dealings with them again.
Their immature if that’s first thing they asked with out ever meeting you before.
January 28th, 2012 at 6:06 am
it-is hard to know how to react to it, with-out a context. I have no idea what this another person was talking about, it makes no sense if you just give us these words.
January 28th, 2012 at 6:15 am
Just go away & ignore them- most people don’t ask that at a first meeting
January 28th, 2012 at 6:31 am
My heart would start racing and beating so loud that I would be afraid they could hear it. I would be sweating & chasing words in my head to form barely coherent reply.
Then later, I would run the scenario over in my head & beat myself up over it.
January 28th, 2012 at 7:17 am
LOLOLOL I know exactly what you mean. that is my worst fear, cuz I have really bad social anxiety. dude that is so embarassing, sort of, it depends on how you look at it. I would feel extremely embarassed, but then I would eventually realize that this doesnt matter.. . . . at least I talked to them. make most of you’re abilities/talents. dont focus on your shortcomings.. . . . if you can fix them, do all you can to fix them.. . .
but anyways, their may have been reason people said that.. . . . they may have just been trying to help, and what they meant came out extremely wrong. I think you should just forget about this & not worry, cuz after every, we are all little bit ants on miniscule earth. you dont have to be scared of tiny very small amount ants. there are billions of us.